You Said “Yes!” – Now What?

That magical moment just happened—you’re engaged! The excitement is real, the ring is sparkling, and the celebrations are still buzzing. But once the initial joy settles, many couples find themselves wondering, “Where do we even begin?”Wedding planning can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. With the right steps in the right order, you can enjoy the journey and create the wedding of your dreams. Here are 10 smart and meaningful things to do after saying “Yes” to help you start your planning with confidence and joy.

10 Things to Do After Saying “Yes” – The Best Way to Start Your Wedding Planning

1. Celebrate the Moment

   Before diving into planning, take time to enjoy being engaged. Share the news with loved ones, have a celebratory dinner, and soak in the joy together.

2. Set a Budget

   Decide on a realistic budget early. Knowing how much you’re willing to spend helps guide every decision moving forward.

3. Create a Guest List Estimate

   Drafting a guest list helps determine the type of venue you’ll need and influences your overall budget and plans.

4. Choose a Wedding Date (or Season)

   Lock in a preferred date or time of year. This helps you book vendors in advance and gives direction to your planning.

5. Hire a Wedding Planner (if needed)

   If your budget allows, a planner can save time, reduce stress, and help bring your vision to life—especially for larger weddings.

6. Book Your Key Vendors Early

   Photographers, videographers, venues, and caterers can book up quickly—especially during peak seasons. Prioritize securing your top vendors early.

7. Start Thinking About Your Wedding Style

   Explore themes, colors, and inspiration. Whether classic, boho, or modern, your style will shape many details from décor to attire.

8. Take Engagement Photos

   Engagement shoots are a great way to get comfortable in front of the camera and can also be used for save-the-dates or your wedding website.

9. Talk About Priorities

   As a couple, discuss what matters most—whether it’s food, music, or having an intimate ceremony—and plan around those priorities.

10. Don’t Forget Self-Care

    Wedding planning can get overwhelming. Make time for date nights, relaxation, and enjoying each other’s company without the stress of planning.